关于现实的生活感悟 句句走心（读完让人获益匪浅）

见过一位朋友，在谈恋爱的过程中，只和恋人见面，从来没有机会认识对方的朋友或家人。

I met a friend. In the process of falling in love, I only met my lover and never had the opportunity to meet each other"s friends or family.

有个人不爱你时，

When someone doesn"t love you,

把你带到父母身边，其实也是给你信心。她想告诉你：你们的关系，已经走到了和家人见面的那一步。

Bringing you to your parents actually gives you confidence. She wants to tell you that your relationship has reached the stage of meeting your family.

怀着这样的愿望，千方百计地付出，在爱情的岁月里，倾注了自己全部的深情和疼爱。

With such a wish, I tried my best to pay, and poured all my deep feelings and love into the years of love.

模糊不清有多伤人，谁都知道，它会瓦解一个人对感情的自信，也会让人失去安全感。

Ambiguity hurts people. Everyone knows that it will disintegrate a person"s confidence in feelings and make people lose their sense of security.

那时的你们，过于自信，以为此后的岁月长河，总能释怀这段往事。

At that time, you were too confident that you could always let go of the past in the years to come.

这样，就有了选择，善也不再盲目。

In this way, there is a choice, and the good is no longer blind.

梁实秋说：中年的妙趣，在于相当了解自己的生命，认识自己，从而做自己能做的事，享受能享受的生活。

Liang Shiqiu said: the fun of middle age lies in knowing your life and yourself, so as to do what you can and enjoy the life you can enjoy.

您体谅别人的不幸，谁体谅过您？就连一些借钱的人，压根没有提到还钱的事。

You are considerate of other people"s misfortunes. Who has been considerate of you? Even some people who borrowed money didn"t mention paying back the money at all.