很现实的人生语录 句句透彻心扉（总有一句打动你）
一、时间在变，人也在变。生命是一场无法回放的绝版电影，有些事不管你如何努力，回不去就是回不去了。世界上最远的距离，不是爱，不是恨，而是熟悉的人，渐渐变得陌生。
time is changing, and people are also changing. Life is an out-of-print movie that can"t be played back. No matter how hard you try, you can"t go back. The furthest distance in the world is not love, not hate, but familiar people, gradually becoming unfamiliar.
二、一生何须太多，有情才是幸福；一生何求太多，有你就已满足。时间会把最正确的人带到你的身边，在此之前，你所要做的，是好好的照顾自己。
there is no need for too much in life, but love is happiness; if there is too much in life, you will be satisfied. Time will bring the right person to you. Before that, all you have to do is take good care of yourself.
三、女人之间的友谊，源于共同讨厌一个女人，止于共同喜欢一个男人。努力经营自己生活中的点滴美好，并且借由着这些美好，告诉自己不要低头，即使人生多艰，世事无常。
Friendship between women stems from hating a woman together and from liking a man together. Make great efforts to manage every bit of beauty in your life, and by virtue of these beauty, tell yourself not to bow, even if life is difficult, things are changeable.
四、 不要去害怕做一件事，不要害怕触景伤情，不要害怕说错话，不要害怕想起过去，不要害怕面对未来。
don"t be afraid to do something, don"t be afraid to touch the scene, don"t be afraid to say the wrong thing, don"t be afraid to think about the past, don"t be afraid to face the future.
五、旧人说走便走，背影潇洒，生怕稍一回首便化作了盐柱，所以就算留恋，都不会再回头;而这些旧物，在整个过程中见证了那么多的好时光，自己没有行动力，全凭我来决定它们的去留。
the old people said that they would walk away, their backs were smart, for fear that they would turn into pillars of salt once they looked back, so they would never look back even if they were nostalgic; and these old things witnessed so many good times in the whole process, they did not have the ability to act, and I decided to leave them.
六、回忆是病毒，附着在这些衣服上，我若是不狠心把它们抛弃，稍不留神，那些病毒便渗进皮肤融入血液一路高奏凯歌直通大脑，大脑反应不过来，便会让心跟着一起负担，于是我整个人，便会再次陷入自怜自艾的死机状态。
Memories are viruses, attached to these clothes, if I don"t give them up hard and carelessly, those viruses will penetrate into the skin, into the blood and play a song of triumph all the way to the brain. If the brain can"t react, it will make the heart burden together, so my whole person will fall into the dead state of self-pity and self-esteem again.
七、不经历风雨，怎能见彩虹。当你遇到了困难，说明，前方正是真理的所在。别轻言放弃，否则会让自己后悔终生。最香的饭永远是别人碗里的，最好的人永远是你得不到的。
How can you see a rainbow without going through the storm? When you encounter difficulties, show that the front is where the truth lies. Don"t give up lightly, or you"ll regret it all your life. The most delicious food is always in the bowl of others, and the best people are always what you can"t get.
八、真实，是人生的最高境界。何为真实？就是不做作、不违背良心，纯乎心性而行。不作假，不自负也不自卑。不作非分之想，知足常乐。不违背良心，心无挂碍，日日安好。该作则作，不该作则止，无妄想和烦恼，做真实的自己。
Truth is the highest realm of life. What is true? It"s not acting, it"s not against conscience, it"s purely conscientious. No cheating, no conceit and no inferiority. If you don"t think too much, you"ll be happy. No breach of conscience, no mind, good day by day. This work should not stop, no delusions and worries, be true to yourself.
九、生活总是给我们一巴掌，我们却无力还击，只能忍着痛继续前行。也许，你走出了我的视线，但是，却没走出我的思念。
Life always gives us a slap, but we can not fight back, can only endure pain and continue to move forward. Perhaps, you came out of my sight, but did not come out of my missing.
十、当人生遇到坎坷，历经磨难时，我们应该不断为自己鼓掌，鼓劲、鼓励。不为困苦所屈服，不为艰险而低头，不为磨难所吓倒。生活的理想是为了理想的生活，只有为自己鼓掌，人生之路会越走越宽广，人生之路会越走越坦荡。
When life encounters ups and downs and goes through hardships, we should constantly applaud, encourage and encourage ourselves. Do not yield to hardship, bow to hardship, or be frightened by hardship. The ideal of life is to live an ideal life. Only by applauding for oneself, the road of life will be wider and wider, and the road of life will be more open.
十一、生命、生活，只有在这个时候才能被人感觉出它的美好的，在平时往往被人忽略的内涵。其实生命的真正意义在于能够自由地享受阳光，森林，山峦，草地，河流，在于平平常常的满足。其它则是无关紧要的。
十二、太多人最终活成了自己最讨厌的样子，结婚生子工作赚钱，看似忙忙碌碌，实则内心空虚，生活早就没有了惊喜。
十三、厚道的人心存正能量，是一个有福，有底气的人。人活着，善良些，真实些，踏实些，拥有厚道的人，就拥有一种无形财富。 你不会了解那种孤独到嗓子眼，想哭又怕没人安慰，咽下眼泪继续微笑的感觉。
A generous person has positive energy in his heart. He is a blessed man with bottom spirit. People who are alive, kind, real, down-to-earth and have kindness possess an intangible wealth. You don"t know the feeling of loneliness to your voice, wanting to cry and fearing no one to comfort you, swallowing your tears and continuing to smile.
十四、有些人相识一天就能恋爱，有些人认识了好几年都不敢表白。有些人在一起了好多年却没能走到最后，有些人分分合合兜兜转转还是会地老天荒。人生就是这么奇妙，遇到错的人做什么都好像是错的，遇到对的人怎样都是对的。
十五、成熟的最大好处是：以前得不到的，现在不想要了。喜欢，就是淡淡的爱。爱，就是深深的喜欢。我希望以后可以不用送你回家，而是我们一起回我们的家。
The greatest advantage of maturity is that you don"t want what you didn"t get before. Like, is light love. Love is deep love. I hope we can go back to our home together instead of seeing you home later.
十六、人都是善变的，人都是孤独的，真的假的，总有一份失落，好的坏的，总有一份相信，委屈的事，委屈的人，委屈的事业，藏着太多苦水，藏着太多的难为情，祝福祝福，就是一个再也不见。
十七、靠的越近越觉得自己渺小 。时间那么现实那一秒都会错过 。有时候，我们就像仙人掌，防备了别人，孤单了自己。
The closer you get, the smaller you feel. Time is so realistic that the second will be missed. Sometimes, we are like cactus, guarding against others, lonely themselves.
十八、一些美丽，只能尘封，细细品味，才能刻骨铭心；一些心事，只能珍藏，静默如花，才可闻其馨香；一些情怀，只能无言，放逐岁月，才会愈加清晰。
Some beautiful things can be remembered only when they are dusty and tasted carefully; some thoughts can only be treasured and smelled like flowers in silence; some feelings can only be more clear when they are silent and banished for years.
十九、我注定要一个人流浪，独自分享我们的忧伤，如果说爱也是矢量，我将沿着它的反方向，和泪水一起凄凉。心里有些话，想说出来。也许不一定是为了告诉你，也许有些话只是为了告诉自己。
二十、其实，男人在感情里并不是不细心体贴，只不过要看他有多爱你，有多在乎你。没有人陪你走一辈子，所以你要适应孤独，没有人会帮你一辈子，所以你要奋斗一生。
二十一、我可以坚强到没有眼泪，却无法真的无动于衷。每一个不想谈恋爱的人，心里都有一个无法拥有的人。如果远方还不属于你，就别把远方看得太重，毕竟来日依旧方长。
I can be strong enough without tears, but I can"t really be indifferent. Every person who doesn"t want to fall in love has a person in his heart that he can"t have. If the distance does not belong to you, do not take the distance too seriously, after all, the future is still long.
二十二、人人都希望这一生就是琴棋书画诗酒花，可终究，还是逃不过柴米油盐酱醋茶，烟火气的生活，才是生活本身。
二十三、永远不要怪别人不帮你，也永远别怪他人不关心你。活在世上，我们都是独立的个体，痛苦难受都得自己承受。没人能真正理解你，石头没砸在他脚上，他永远体会不到有多疼。人生路上，我们都是孤独的行者，如人饮水冷暖自知，真正能帮你的，永远只有你自己。
Never blame others for not helping you, and never blame others for not caring about you. Living in the world, we are all independent individuals, suffering has to bear their own.
Nobody really understands you. The stone didn"t hit his foot. He never realized how much pain it was. On the road of life, we are all lonely travelers, such as people who drink cold and warm water, know that you can really help, always only you.
二十四、有些事不说是个结，说了是道疤，结可以解开，疤却永远都在。与其掏心掏肺说的真心话到了别人那成了个笑话，不如让它直接烂在心里，自己消化。