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安全感不是来自爱，而是来自偏好。只有当人们确信自己是例外时，他们才会感到轻松。
Security comes not from love, but from preference. Only when people are convinced that they are the exception will they feel relaxed.
当我的父母不回我的信息时，我从不感到不安，因为我坚信他们对我的爱是坚不可摧的。
When my parents don"t return my information, I never feel uneasy, because I firmly believe that their love for me is indestructible.
但是如果你长时间不给我回信，我会担心和害怕很长时间。
But if you don"t reply to me for a long time, I will worry and fear for a long time.
因为只有不确定的事情才会让人担心得失。你给予的爱不会让我感到安全。我想要的是偏好、例外和差异。
Because only uncertain things can make people worry about gain and loss. The love you give won"t make me feel safe. What I want is preferences, exceptions and differences.
女孩们想要的偏好是“我希望你无缘无故地相信我。无论何时我和你在一起，我都不会输给别人。”。
The preference girls want is "I hope you believe me for no reason. Whenever I"m with you, I won"t lose to others.".
就是那个在打了几十个电话后不能打出去的人。我所需要的只是一个标点符号。他可以把我的手机炸了。
The one who can"t call out after making dozens of calls. All I need is a punctuation mark. He can blow up my cell phone.
也许在很大程度上，这种偏执是不合理的，但被偏爱的人总是自信的。很多时候，我只是希望你公开地爱我，没有底线的宠坏我。
Perhaps to a large extent, this paranoia is unreasonable, but the people who are preferred are always confident. Many times, I just hope you love me openly and spoil me without a bottom line.
天气越来越凉了。我想提醒你，天气很冷，加了衣服，但恐怕这是多余的。如果语气稍有不妥，恐怕会模棱两可。
The weather is getting colder and colder. I"d like to remind you that it"s very cold. I added clothes, but I"m afraid it"s superfluous. If the tone is slightly inappropriate, I"m afraid it will be ambiguous.