朋友圈最新经典人生语录 字字都是人生感悟（句句让你淡然）
一、一个真正强大的人，不会把太多心思花在取悦和亲附别人上面。所谓圈子、资源，都只是衍生品。最重要的是提高自己的内功。只有自己修炼好了，才会有别人来亲附。自己是梧桐，凤凰才会来栖；自己是大海，百川才来汇聚。你只有到了那个层次，才会有相应的圈子，而不是倒过来。
A truly powerful person doesn"t spend too much on pleasing and attaching to others. The so-called circles and resources are just derivatives. The most important thing is to improve their internal work. Only after self-cultivation can others come to attach to it. I am a plane tree, the Phoenix will come to live; I am the sea, Baichuan will come to converge. Only when you reach that level will you have a corresponding circle, not the other way around.
二、人总是喜欢给自己戴上一层面具，而面具下的你又是什么样的？有些伤口，无论过多久，依然一碰就痛；有些人，不管过多久，也还是一想起就疼。希望有一天，我可以在孤单、生病、难过的时候不那么想你…恩，再见了，我那么那么爱你，虽笨拙但也努力了做了很多，所以我不遗憾了。
People always like to put on a mask for themselves, and what kind of you are under the mask? Some wounds, no matter how long they last, still hurt when touched; others, no matter how long they last, still hurt when remembered. I hope one day, I can not miss you so much when I am lonely, sick and sad. Well, goodbye, I love you so much, though clumsy, but also made a lot of efforts, so I don"t regret it.
三、一个男人有时候得做出一些艰难的抉择，即使大多数人都不认可，但他知道这是在对未来负责。有些人注定要告别，你可以看着他的背影越走越远，但在他消失之后，还是要打起精神，继续往前走。
Sometimes a man has to make some difficult choices, even though most people don"t agree with them, but he knows that he is responsible for the future. Some people are doomed to say goodbye. You can watch his back go farther and farther. But after he disappears, you still need to pick up your spirits and move on.
四、生活中， 总有人不知不觉地消失在你的生命里。有的挥挥手说了再见之后就各安天涯；有的甚至来不及好好告别就渐行渐远。走散的朋友、错过的爱人，没来得及说出口的喜欢， 和一些无疾而终的感情， 让我们明白什么是珍贵。
In life, there are always people who unconsciously disappear into your life. Some waved goodbye and then settled down; others went farther and farther before they even had time to say goodbye. The lost friends, the missing lover, the love that we have not had time to say, and some feelings that have passed without illness, let us understand what is precious.
五、总以为来日方长， 总以为岁月温柔，却在没来得及时， 猝不及防地失去。或许让人遗憾的，更多的是那个不够热诚和勇敢的自己。愿你赤诚勇敢如少年，回望此路，了无遗憾。
Always think that the future is long, always think that the years are gentle, but not in time, suddenly lost. Perhaps it"s a pity that more of them are not enthusiastic and brave enough. May you be as brave as a teenager and look back on this road without regret.
六、善良本是天性，想留住却很难。难怪年龄大了，就越有点孩子气，就越喜欢孩子。原来他们拥有的，正是我们已经失去的。但愿我们，一起成长，一直善良，一切都好。
Kindness is inherent, but it"s hard to keep it. No wonder the older you are, the more childish you are, the more you like children. What they had was what we had lost. I hope we can grow up together, be kind all the time, and everything will be all right.
七、忘不了一个人，不是因为这个人有多好，而是在你生命里，留下了独一无二的记忆，这是别人永远 也给不了的。机会你给了我，让我看到了希望，然而我又看到了失望，等待很痛苦，漫长的时间会慢慢的把我想要的美好磨灭，然而我还是要等，尽管我很失望，很伤心，这就是代价。我不会再向你要什么机会了，因为我怕等。Forget a person, not because of how good this person is, but in your life, left a unique memory, which others will never give. Opportunity you gave me, let me see hope, but I also saw disappointment, waiting very painful, a long time will slowly wear away the good I want, but I still have to wait, although I am disappointed, very sad, that is the price. I won"t ask you for any more chance because I"m afraid to wait.
八、分分合合了三年，中间不乏有过声嘶力竭的挽留，可最后一次却出奇地冷静。除了你自己，没有人会明白你的故事里有过多少快乐或伤悲，这世上根本不存在感同身受，所以别傻傻的摊开伤口向别人诉苦，这世上多的是撒盐的人，而不是医生。After three years of separation and closure, many of them had been retained with hoarseness and exhaustion, but for the last time they were surprisingly calm. No one but yourself knows how much joy or sorrow there is in your story. There is no empathy in this world. So don"t open your wound foolishly and complain to others. There are many salty people in this world, not doctors.
九、越努力越幸运，不要给年轻找太多借口，现在你能做的，除了努力，别无其他。我们一生会遇到很多人，能静下心对你的人，哪怕是听你唠叨、看你操劳、给你肩膀、紧紧拥抱……都算是最好的答案。缘分这东西，来得神秘、去得着急。能撞到一起，就要好好珍惜。余生那么长，世界那么大，我们始终都会变老。The harder you work, the luckier you are. Don"t give younger people too many excuses. What you can do now is nothing but hard work. We will meet many people in our lives, who can calm down to your people, even if it is to listen to your nagging, see your hard work, give you shoulders, hug you tightly... It"s the best answer. Fate is something that comes mysteriously and goes in a hurry. If you can collide with each other, you must cherish it. For the rest of our lives and the world is so big, we will always grow old.
十、感情这事情，彼此包容也好，互相替补也罢，既然相爱了，就该好好陪伴。人群那么挤，道路那么宽，如果我们互相欺瞒，终究还是会走远、走散。为了对得起自己曾经的悸动，希望所有的等待都值得理睬，希望所有的喜欢都能够发现，希望所有的相伴都保持到老。
Emotion is a matter of mutual tolerance or substitution. Now that we are in love, we should accompany each other well. Crowds are so crowded, roads are so wide, if we deceive each other, we will eventually go far and scatter. In order to stand up to their own once throbbing, I hope that all the waiting is worth paying attention to, I hope that all the likes can be found, and I hope that all the companions will remain old.
十一、人活着，别欺骗别人。谎言就是一把刀，插在了信任你的人心上，要多疼就有多疼！信任是一杯水，一旦浑浊，无法清澈。信任是一面镜子，一旦破碎，难以粘合。人若诚信，就会有人和你交心；人若失信；谁都会对你死心。不管爱情还是友情，如果你丢了真心，忘了感恩，失了诚信，你就什么都不是 。People live, don"t deceive others. A lie is a knife, inserted in the heart of those who trust you, how much pain there is! Trust is a glass of water, once turbid, can not be clear. Trust is a mirror, once broken, it is difficult to bond. If a person is honest, he will have a heart to heart with you; if a person is dishonest, he will die for you. No matter love or friendship, if you lose your heart, forget to be grateful, lose your integrity, you are nothing.
十二、人生需要四种修为：一是忍得过。忍得一时之气，消得百日之灾；能忍，不一定是懦弱。二是看得破。最大的淡定，不是看破红尘，而是看透人生以后依然能够热爱生活。三是拿得起。做人要有担当，不推诿，不逃避，直面惨淡的人生。Life needs four kinds of cultivation: one is tolerance. It is not necessarily cowardice to tolerate a moment"s anger and a hundred days"calamity. Second, we can see through it. The greatest calmness is not to see through the red dust, but to see through life and still love life. Third, it is affordable. To be a man, we should shoulder the responsibility, not shirk the responsibility, not escape, and face the bleak life directly.
十三、有时候，我们努力拼搏，总想变得更好，但是我们也必须学会，接纳那些不能改变的，改变那些我们可以改变的，这才是幸福的起始点。当眼泪汇成一眼泉。最后，哭累了眼睛，哭伤了心。
Sometimes, we strive hard and always want to be better, but we must also learn to accept those that can not be changed, change those that we can change, which is the starting point of happiness. When tears come together into a fountain. Finally, I cried tired eyes and hurt my heart.
十四、不管你信不信，有个人正在等待着，希望能遇到像你这样的人。如果决定离开一个人，那么行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻；如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。Believe it or not, there"s someone waiting to meet someone like you. If you decide to leave a person, act quickly and cut through the mess; if you decide to fall in love with a person, lengthen the time to see if it suits you.
十五、当你正在工作的时候，若你的家人出事了，请千万别不要犹豫，尽你最大的努力去陪伴你的家人。工作固然重要，但请不要忘记你之所以会去工作的理由；只有当你的工作关乎很多人的利益的时候，你才可以舍小家为大家。When you are working, if something happens to your family, please don"t hesitate to do your best to accompany your family. Work is important, but don"t forget the reason why you go to work; only when your work concerns the interests of many people can you leave your family for everyone.
十六、我没有你以为的那么洒脱，不是爱或不爱都能随口说。其实我喜欢你这件事也只是三分钟热度，只不过是一个三分钟接一个三分钟，不曾停过。I am not as free and easy as you think, not love or not love can be casually said. In fact, I like you this thing is only three minutes of heat, just three minutes after three minutes, never stop.
十七、 生活应该是向前走的，那些零碎的不重要的言语，以及风尘沙粒，应该是被抛在身后的。只有这样，你才能成为更强大的自己。
Life should be moving forward, those fragmentary and unimportant words, as well as dust and sand, should be left behind. Only in this way can you become a stronger self.