话糙理不糙的现实语录 句句犀利（适合发朋友圈）

1、如果你没能力做好，就不要伸手去要什么；如果你没能力办到，更不要张口去答应什么

If you can"t do it well, don"t ask for anything; if you can"t, don"t open your mouth to promise

2、即使你做的再好，总会有不喜欢你的人在，真的没必要去讨好每一个人，不但做不到，还给自己找心塞

Even if you do well, there will always be people who don"t like you. There is really no need to please everyone, not only can"t do it, but also find their own heart plug

3、每个人都很忙，但总对你说忙的那个人，大概你在他心里真的没那么重要，能有自知之明，足以证明你还不是太傻

Everyone is very busy, but always say to you that busy person, maybe you are not so important in his heart, can have self-knowledge, enough to prove that you are not too stupid

4、并非只有导演能做到让你富有你就富有，让你贫穷你就贫穷，让你哭你就要哭，让你笑你就要笑，你自己本身就可以，人生本就靠你自导自演

It is not only the director who can make you rich, you will be rich, if you are poor, you will be poor. If you cry, you will cry; if you laugh, you will laugh. You can do it yourself. Life depends on you

5、听到不喜欢你的人说你缺点的时候，先别急着去发火，认真听一下，也许她说的是对的，毕竟讨厌你的人才会毫不留情地抖你的缺点

When you hear people who don"t like you say your shortcomings, don"t rush to get angry and listen carefully. Maybe what she said is right. After all, people who hate you will shake your shortcomings mercilessly

6、现在人与人之间就是我向前靠近一步，你就会退后两步，生怕踩到你的脚，更别说能走进你的心里，那简直是痴心妄想

Now between people is that I step forward, you will step back two steps, for fear of stepping on your feet, let alone into your heart, that is simply wishful thinking

7、有些人真的很可笑，自己做着伤风败俗的事情，还能理直气壮的站在道德的制高点去批判别人，有些事情自己做可以，别人做就是错的

Some people are really ridiculous. They do something immoral and can criticize others from the commanding point of morality. Some things can be done by themselves and others are wrong

8、选择安逸可能会让你爽一阵子，可生活会让你苦一辈子

Choosing ease may make you happy for a while, but life will make you suffer for a lifetime

9、不要总心存侥幸，当你运气用完的时候，你就能深刻体会到什么叫“屋漏偏逢连夜雨”

Don"t always be lucky, when you run out of luck, you can deeply understand what is called "house leakage, but every night rain"

10、善良这东西你要用的有价值，用对了是功劳，用错了是苦劳

Goodness is a valuable thing you want to use. If you use it correctly, it is meritorious; if you use it wrong, it is hard work

11、会走的都是过客，能说的委屈都不算委屈，觉得勉强的就不要挽留，会让人嘲笑的就不要往外说

Will leave are passers-by, can say grievances are not grievances, feel reluctant not to retain, will let people laugh at do not say

12、真正成长的瞬间是什么，就是以往拼命想得到的东西，突然不想要了，不是东西没吸引力了，是感觉能让自己受尽委屈的东西不值得了

What"s the moment of real growth? It"s what you"ve been trying to get. Suddenly you don"t want it. It"s not that things are not attractive. It"s something that makes you feel wronged that"s not worth it

13、一个女人最该有的修养就是在面对别人的胡搅蛮缠和飞扬跋扈时，能够镇定自如，轻松应付，而不是把自己气得发飙

A woman should have the most accomplishment is to be calm and easy to deal with other people"s bossy and domineering, instead of making herself angry

14、忍一时风平浪静，能忍的时候就拿出你的肚量，不能忍的时候就拿出你的巴掌，毕竟有些道理用嘴是说不清的

If you can bear it, you will take out your belly when you can bear it, and take out your slap when you can"t bear it. After all, there are some reasons that can"t be explained clearly with your mouth

15、生活就是这么现实，你有能力的时候说的话就是道理，你没能力的时候说的话都是自言自语

Life is such a reality, what you say when you have the ability is truth, and what you say when you are not able is all to yourself

16、如果你没有足够的钱，千万别有说走就走的旅行，怕你回不来

If you don"t have enough money, don"t go on a trip, for fear you won"t come back