缘起缘灭我们不能控制 那么在缘分来临时（请珍惜那短暂的时间）
爱情是温柔的。如果你拖着它一起下沉，那就太难了。(爱情)。
Love is gentle. If you drag it down, it"s too difficult.
爱情不是互相深情的，不是许下誓言的约定。(威廉莎士比亚、哈姆雷特、爱情)爱情是默默付出的实践，是用真诚的心去关怀凉棚温柔。(爱情)。
Love is not mutual affection, not an agreement to make an oath. (William Shakespeare, Hamlet, love) love is the practice of paying silently and caring for the tenderness of the canopy with a sincere heart. (love).
一旦，你会觉得，当你身体最不好的时候，遇见你的初恋会让你尴尬，但从某一天开始，一切似乎都变得轻松了，这并不意味着以前的背叛，但你学会了用宽容的心对待自己。
你知道自己和他只是不合适，不是因为自己的身体不能吸引他。所以你可以看到你面前这个男人的变化。原来他也只是稍微胖了点的普通中年男人。
Once, you will feel that when you are in the worst health, meeting your first love will make you embarrassed, but from one day, everything seems to be relaxed, which does not mean the previous betrayal, but you have learned to treat yourself with a tolerant heart.
You know that you and him are only inappropriate, not because your body can"t attract him. So you can see the face in front of you A man"s change. It turned out that he was just a little fat middle-aged man.
距离可以增加思念，点燃热情，但第一次迷恋逐渐消失，距离成为彼此进一步沟通的最大障碍。(威廉莎士比亚、《哈姆雷特》、《千里迢迢》)
Distance can increase missing and ignite enthusiasm, but the first infatuation gradually disappears, and distance has become the biggest obstacle to further communication. (William Shakespeare, Hamlet, a thousand miles away) Two people"s personality differences should be intimate, understood and adapted.
两个人的性格差异，要亲密相处，理解和适应，要从浓浓的感情保持到淡淡的感情，作为分享心灵的话题。倾诉距离、思念，真诚自然地相处，才能传达彼此的心。想一个人，要去见他。多见见他，才知道到底爱不爱他。
They should keep from strong feelings to light feelings as a topic to share their hearts. Only by talking about distance, missing and getting along sincerely and naturally can we convey each other"s hearts. If you want to be a person, you should see him. If you see him more, you can know whether you love him or not.
真正爱一个人说不出原因。无论何时何地，心情好坏，你都希望这个人和你在一起。真正的感情是，两个人可以在最困难的情况下相互守护。也就是说，一点也不要求。(萧伯纳，爱情)
毕竟，感情是给的，不是只想得到的，分手是必然的考验。如果你们的感情不够牢固，只能认输。(莎士比亚)。
You can"t tell why you really love someone. No matter when and where you are in a good mood or bad mood, you want this person to be with you. The real feeling is that two people can guard each other in the most difficult situation. That is to say, they don"t ask at all. (Bernard Shaw, love)
After all, feelings are given, not just wanted. Breaking up is an inevitable test. If your feelings are not strong enough, you can only admit defeat. (Shakespeare).
放不下的是普通人。我们放下尊严，抛弃个性，放下固执，只是因为放不下一个人。
Ordinary people can"t let go. We put down our dignity, abandon our personality and stubbornness, just because we can"t let go of a person.
我不完美，但我是真实的。也就是说，我不漂亮，但我很酷。我不富有，但我很幸福。我不会成功，但我很有信心。我不多情，但我懂得珍惜。付出真心才能得到真心，但彻底受伤，保持距离可以保护自己，但注定永远孤独。
I"m not perfect, but I"m real. In other words, I"m not beautiful, but I"m cool. I"m not rich, but I"m happy. I won"t succeed, but I"m confident. I"m not affectionate, but I know how to cherish. Only by giving my heart can I get my heart, but I"m completely injured. Keeping a distance can protect myself, but I"m destined to be lonely forever.
有些女人总是不快乐。因为他们心里总是有太正确的人。不知道那个人本来就不完整。(莎士比亚)。
Some women are always unhappy. Because they always have the right person in their heart. They don"t know that person is incomplete. (Shakespeare).
男人遇到困难的事，需要的不是安慰，而是空间。在女人面前，男人想扮演英雄的角色，为她解忧，解决她的生活或心理困难。还有，当他自己有心事的时候，记住他仍然想成为英雄。只是此时他是受伤的英雄。
When a man encounters difficulties, what he needs is not comfort, but space. In front of a woman, a man wants to play the role of a hero, relieve her worries and solve her life or psychological difficulties. Also, when he has something on his mind, remember that he still wants to be a hero. But at this time, he is an injured hero.
缘起缘灭我们不能控制，我们能做的就是在有缘的时候，珍惜那短暂的时间。
Fate is gone and fate is thick. It"s not something we can control. All we can do is cherish that short time when we have fate.
如果你们已经在一起了，就要努力相信对方。不要因为小事胡乱怀疑。没有那么好的地方，也是对自己没有信心的表现。反而会让对方逐渐失去对你的信心。
If you are already together, try to trust each other. Don"t doubt because of small things. If there is no such good place, it is also a sign of lack of confidence in yourself. On the contrary, the other party will gradually lose confidence in you.