写在便利贴上的温柔句子 触动人心（令人着迷）

这种感情是相处必不可少的。缺乏认同的感觉，往往会造成关系的不平衡，一方自信，另一方稍显卑微。

This feeling is essential to get along. Lack of identity often leads to an imbalance in the relationship. One party is confident and the other is slightly humble.

那个饭馆的菜真的很闲吗？也许没有，她这么说是因为她生气你跟其他异性谈得火辣辣，或是对方请你吃饭。

Is the food in that restaurant really salty? Maybe not. She said that because she was angry that you talked hotly with other members of the opposite sex, or that the other person invited you to dinner.

本来她的声音很大，但和你说话时会故意压低声音。那是人的本能反应，不敢在自己喜欢的人面前出丑。

She used to have a loud voice, but she will deliberately lower her voice when talking to you. That"s a human instinct. I don"t dare to make a fool of myself in front of the people I like.

如此一来，就会让男人注意到你的需求，在乎你的感受，习惯于为你付出。

In this way, men will notice your needs, care about your feelings and get used to paying for you.

爱的本质就是双方相互付出，相互收获。若要引导男人主动为你付出，那么就要自己先学会给予。

The essence of love is that both sides pay and harvest each other. If you want to guide men to take the initiative to pay for you, you must first learn to give.

人到中年，就要学会宽恕别人，放纵自己。

In middle age, we should learn to forgive others and indulge ourselves.

有一句话：“真爱就是细心呵护，它就像植物，需要浇水，否则它就会枯萎、死亡。因此，要有矢志不渝的爱，就要像照顾你的花草一样，细心照料、细心呵护。”

There is a saying: "true love is to take care of it carefully. It is like a plant. It needs watering, otherwise it will wither and die. Therefore, if you want to have unwavering love, you should take care of it like taking care of your flowers and plants."